What to Say | What Not to Say

WHAT TO SAY

"I'm sorry that (the deceased) died."

"I know that you are sad. It's OK to cry."

"We can set up a signal system. If you need to leave the class, you can be excused to go to the library."

"If you cannot work on this special project right now, you can do something extra another time during the year."

"If you cannot turn all your assignments in or keep up with all your homework, I will lighten your assignments for awhile."

"Would you like it if we moved your desk so you could sit by your best friend?"

"I can't know how you feel, but I want to help you in any way that I can."

"I'm ready to listen when you're ready to talk."

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WHAT NOT TO SAY

“Don’t be sad.”

“I know just how you feel.”

“Keep your chin up.”

“Things will get better in time.”

“You have to be strong.”

“Just keep busy. It will keep your mind off your troubles.”

“It’s God’s will.

“She’s in a better place.”

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